The term “constructive criticism” is nothing more than a nice way for someone to try to put you down. That phrase is nothing more than a justification to insult you. You should never take crap from anybody when it comes to being you, even if they are offering constructive criticism. If they have issues on how you doing you, then that’s their problem, not yours. This is your your life and and as far as I know, the only life you have. Don’t apologize to anybody for the life you been given to live and the way you live it.
I had a lot of cats come around talking about they had “constructive criticism” on the way I carry myself. Cats who read this blog and maybe they said “oh, maybe I should say something about how he carry himself” as if they suppose to matter. Then I get something in my inbox or the comment section about I should do this or do that or need to be this way or that way or I don’t know or should know something. I’m sitting here thinking who these cats suppose to be to me in the first place?
The only people who got opinions that should matter to you those who can actually show you how to get better. The only people who should be commenting on you and your hustle or daily grind are people who already been there and done that and obtained what you are currently striving to achieve. If the cat don’t got it like that, then they are not qualified to say a damn thing to you about anything.
Also, no one is in a position to tell you how imperfect you are or have an opinion about your situation. Cats don’t realize the person they talking about today can be a person who prove everybody wrong, overcome their challenges and come out a winner. Then the same cats who was talking ish ain’t nowhere to be found. I can name a whole bunch of cats in my life who were that way with me. Just like roaches that disappear when the lights come on.